THIS SISI IS FORTY - 4.0H!


I turned 40 a few hours ago (LOL), and honestly, it feels like one of those life milestones you think about for years but never really imagine happening until it does. Here I am, though—standing in this new decade, reflective yet excited, introspective but forward-thinking. If my 30s taught me anything, it’s that life is unpredictable, and that’s what makes it so beautiful. I started this blog in my 20's - 15 years ago and if you're still riding with me, thank you!

Embracing the Journey

At 40, I find myself at a point where I’m more in tune with who I am than ever before. The last few decades were filled with lessons, some hard, some joyful, but all invaluable. I’ve grown in ways I never imagined, evolving into someone I’m proud of. There were moments I doubted myself, times I wondered if I was on the right path. But now, I see that each twist and turn led me exactly where I needed to be.

Letting Go of the Pressure

When you're younger, you feel this immense pressure to have everything figured out by a certain age—to hit those "life goals." But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that life isn’t about ticking boxes; it’s about enjoying the process. Turning 40 feels like finally exhaling after years of holding my breath. I'm no longer rushing to meet some societal timeline. Instead, I’m savoring the life I’ve built, the relationships I’ve nurtured, and the work I’ve created.


Celebrating Accomplishments

I look back at the last 40 years with immense gratitude. From starting my YouTube channel and growing a community, to becoming a mom of 5 (you guys this part is still doing me like film trick) and navigating all the joys and challenges that come with it—these experiences shaped me. I’ve learned that success is not just about career achievements or how much you’ve accomplished on paper. True success is the peace that comes with knowing you’ve lived authentically and contributed to the world in a way that feels meaningful.

What I’m Excited About for the Future

The beauty of turning 40 is that there’s still so much ahead. I’m excited about what the next decade holds—new experiences, deeper connections, and even more personal growth. If the past has taught me anything, it’s that life will continue to surprise and inspire me. And I’m ready for it.

This new chapter feels like an invitation to focus on what truly matters: family, self-care, purposeful work, and living each day with intention. I no longer feel the need to chase after things; I’m learning that everything I need is either already within me or will find its way to me in time.

Grateful for the Journey

As I settle into 40, I feel a deep sense of gratitude—for the journey, for the people who have walked alongside me, and for the lessons I’ve learned along the way. I don’t know what the future holds, but I do know that I’m entering this new phase with open arms, ready for whatever comes next. Turning 40 feels like a fresh start, and I couldn’t be more excited to embrace it.



A Birthday Treat Just for You!

In celebration of this special milestone, I’m sharing something with all of you! You can now download any of my cookbooks using the code BDAY for a special discount. Whether you're looking for fun recipes for your kids or healthy meals for yourself, these cookbooks are packed with delicious, family-friendly ideas. Click HERE to download them all 

So, go ahead—grab your copy, and let's keep cooking up more delicious moments together!

Here’s to 40—and all the wisdom, joy, and adventure that comes with it. 🎉




No comments

Your comments are like delicious grains of jollof rice to me: please feed me! Send me love mail sisi@sisiyemmie.com / Official business@sisiyemmie.com

Back to Top