Ok, so me I jejely going through some blog comments on recent divorces in the Nollywood Industry and you know how comments can be: some are off point, while some just expand the topic at hand but they all centered around cheating. The first comment I read that drew me back was:
“A man with an erection has no sense“ and the context in which it was written was this: “if a man wants to have sex he can do it with whoever, whenever and wherever” Is this true? I don’t agree, it makes men look like dogs that have no brain or self control like didirin. Haba. Men, make una talk oh! Defend yourselves. I did a post on Lies Women Believe About Men last year. Check it out HERE
The second comment was directly about husband snatching. “Men are not property! No one can ‘steal’ your husband without his consent so if your hubby is nicked from you then the blame lies with him not the woman! “
I very much agree with this comment. Cheating is a choice unless the man was jazzed and even if he was jazzed it’s because he opened himself to be jazzed “if the wall has no cracks lizards cannot penetrate” …That’s why it baffles me when women attack other women when the man is found cheating, wetin concern agbero with overload? should you not be facing the person that broke his vows? Feel free to agree or disagree.
I very much agree with this comment. Cheating is a choice unless the man was jazzed and even if he was jazzed it’s because he opened himself to be jazzed “if the wall has no cracks lizards cannot penetrate” …That’s why it baffles me when women attack other women when the man is found cheating, wetin concern agbero with overload? should you not be facing the person that broke his vows? Feel free to agree or disagree.
The third comment I read was this “I am a Nigerian man and I want you to take this to the Bank. 95% of Nigerian men would never let go of a woman they deflowered as their wife”…He went on to say “I am not saying they wont cheat on her o but they will adore and cherish her die”! LOL. What is adoration? what is being cherished if there’s no respect. If you truly adore and cherish someone, you wont cheat on them. Bia, pocket your adoration.
It’s all fine and good, Nigerian men want to marry vaaargin but are busy dis-virgining other babes and future wives. I do not believe that love is conditional on if the babe is a virgin or not, there are people who have married prostitutes and love them just as much if not more than the virgin brides…virginity is not a condition for love. True love is unconditional…*flips hair* Abeg, don’t go and misquote me oh, I did not say that you should not be a virgin bride, I’m just saying it is not a condition for love. Be good girls 🙂
You can choose to agree or disagree with any of the comments above. I’m waiting! *shines teeth*
