I was reading through
STING’S blog and she wrote about this chic that decided to go natural whose boyfriend was not happy about it. I nor go lie. If I was a dude and my babe did one kind hair wey make am resemble wetin I nor know. I nor do again! Going ‘natural’ does not suit everyone. I will not even deceive myself to think it would fit me, that’s a risk at this vain point in my life! Mba nu! I’m too vain for that. Let’s flip the coin shall we? Oya just imagine say your guy just come back one day with dada ‘rasta’ hair! Ras Kimono…ayaga yaga yaga yo!!! If na me, I go run leave am. For what na? Shooo!
Another issue is weight; Body Magic is not popular for nothing. Many guys just dey hala “Nigerian girls are too lazy”, “always blow up especially after marriage”, “they always let it go”. It’s not like all these men that are complaining have arranged their 6 packs oh…all they have sef is one huge akpu pack! So Johnbull started dating this chic when she was 22 and still okpelenge lepa shandy, fastforward 5 years later after many akpu meals, suya joints and many gbugudu gbugudu romps in the bedroom + contraceptives she goes from size 8 to 14…add the fact say she be ‘after 1’. Guy don dey vex. Kilode?
My friend mama joined one Church and believed that she should stop wearing makeup and jewelry. Her husband immediately called for family meeting and all the in-laws had to arrange their sister. Baba Yari! He also dey para that she’s always wearing hairnets in bed…oh’ frokomo! (even me I’m #TeamHairnet). If you are married or in a committed relationship you should sha consider your spouse before you change your style and na we women dey do this thing pass. Today you look like Monika, tomorrow you resemble Sandra. Attractiveness is koko in a relationship whether you like it or yes, and manner of dressing, perfume, hair style, make up and weight are components of attractiveness. So if your partner is not ‘attracted’ to you then you are not #winning oh. Shebi they said beauty is in the eye of the beholder… Who is your Beholder?
The question is sha…does all of this matter? attractiveness? I thought a person’s personality was MUCH MORE important than hair, weight, makeup, abi I’m sleeping on okada???
