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| Stop Comparing: Live Happy |
Why I didn't share this video on my blog, I dunno *shrugs. However, it is better late than never! Some of us always compare our relationships, careers, finances, beauty to others and it's not healthy if it does not inspire you to do better but causes you to be depressed, angry and envious!
Sadly, that is the case most times. The grass always looks greener on the other side, abi? There's always going to be someone wealthier, "beautifuller", "successfuller" than you! Let's get that point. I compare sometimes and I don't like the feeling I get, it makes me feel "one kind". When you stop comparing, you can live happy!
Watch this video to know what comparing yourself to other people does to you! Stop eeeeeeeet! Do you have advice for people who can never stop comparing? Let's help each other.
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I think its human nature to want to compare yourself to others but it really can be so damaging to the self-esteem. I had to learn long ago not to bother if for no other reason than you don't know what lies beneath the surface of someone else's success story. You don't know what hard work, good fortune, or deals with the devil (lol) had to be made to get them where they are.
ReplyDeleteWell said Lady Ngo
DeleteI think you compare yourself to others because you don't know your self worth
ReplyDeleteSometimes yes, other times you just want to measure growth. Can be positive or negative
DeleteOmg! Earlier today,I wrote a letter to myself to stop comparing myself to others!
ReplyDeletesome of us are constantly fighting this battle!
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ReplyDeleteMadam Chic therapy.... this will be so easy for you!! lol Oya make a skirt!
DeleteComparing yourself to others is the quickest way to depression..
ReplyDeleteYour video was not only insightful but funny as well! So glad I've found your blog :D
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